Why is it??

Why is it that people have to drag other people down when life isn't going the way they think it should? I have a friend that I know loves me but at the same time I think that He/She loves to see me miserable. Why else would they bring up touchy subjects just out of the blue and then say "I'm not trying to cause any problems, but....". If you have to start the conversation off that way then just maybe you shouldn't say it. I don't know, maybe they are just looking out for me but right now it doesn't feel that way. The problems that they didn't want to cause are now here and it really sucks! Maybe I just need to focus on who my friends really are and weed out all the people that bring the B.S in the relationship. Maybe that should be my resolution for this year.